Valentine’s Day History: From Romans to Romance

Now, isn’t that something worth celebrating?

Valentine’s Day history isn’t all about love, romance, and chocolate hearts. In fact, its origins are far less adorable and way more, well, dramatic—think more “Game of Thrones” than “You’ve Got Mail.”

The Romans Really Knew How to Party

If you want to thank someone for all that candy and Cupid imagery, start with ancient Rome—a civilization not exactly big on subtlety. From February 13th to 15th, they celebrated the feast of Lupercalia, a festival that can best be described as “Rated R” for violence, nudity, and questionable matchmaking practices.

Picture this: shirtless, drunken men running around the city, whipping women with freshly skinned goat and dog hides. The women actually lined up for this because they believed it would make them fertile. Yes, really. Goat-whipping = ancient fertility treatment. Science, take note.

If that wasn’t strange enough, the festival also included a “love lottery.” Men would draw random women’s names from a jar, and voilà—they were paired off for the entirety of the festival. Some of these pairings lasted beyond the party, which is either endearing or frightening depending on your perspective.

So, Who’s Valentine, Anyway?

Somewhere between the whipping and the awkward matchmaking came another key plot point. The Romans executed two guys named Valentine, both on—you guessed it—February 14th in different years during the 3rd century. Why? Because Emperor Claudius II wasn’t exactly winning any “Best Boss” awards.

Later, the martyrdom of these two Valentines was honored by the Catholic Church, and St. Valentine’s Day was born. Cue Pope Gelasius I in the 5th century, who decided to clean up the holiday’s image a bit. He combined Lupercalia with St. Valentine’s festivities, swapped out public nudity for fully clothed revelry, and declared it a day celebrating fertility and love (but, you know, more holy-like).

Thanks, Shakespeare

And what would Valentine’s Day history be without Shakespeare? So, fast forward a few centuries, and Valentine’s Day got a PR makeover. Enter William Shakespeare and Geoffrey Chaucer, who romanticized the heck out of the holiday in their writing. Suddenly, the day became less about sacrificial goats and more about hand-written love notes.

By the Middle Ages, people were exchanging thoughtful, hand-crafted valentines—a much safer practice than whipping your crush with animal hides, don’t you think?

The Capitalism of Love

Eventually, Valentine’s Day made its way to the New World, where Americans did what they do best—turned it into big business. Handmade cards gave way to factory-made ones during the Industrial Revolution. Then came Hallmark in 1913, realizing, “Hey, we can monetize emotions!” And the rest, as they say, is history.

Today, Valentine’s Day is a commercial juggernaut, with billions spent annually on flowers, chocolates, and those absurdly overpriced prix fixe dinners. Sociologist Helen Fisher says we only have ourselves to blame—romance isn’t dead, but your paycheck might be.

And That’s How We Got Here

From bloody Roman festivals to candy hearts and Hallmark cards, Valentine’s Day has certainly come a long way. Whether you love it, hate it, or just use it as an excuse to eat an entire box of chocolates, chances are your current traditions are a whole lot tamer than ancient Rome. And really, isn’t that something to celebrate?

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